Have you ever had a singular experience that has made you go “You know what, I could really see myself working in this industry”? I had that moment almost a decade ago in 2014, when myself and a guest decided to attend a performance of Disney’s The Lion King the Musical at the Queensland Performing Arts Centre (QPAC). While the tickets were booked rather late and I still have no idea how we managed to get such good seating, we sat in the stalls, with my guest sat right up against the aisle. The lights dim, The Circle of Life begins playing, and a couple of minutes later my guest was overcome with happiness I had never really seen from her – as the actors (as animals) passed by her, and the magic of theatre came to life. From there, I knew that not only would I wish to cover this through my writing (as I have through The Theatre Sphere), and provide her with many more happy memories through a shared love of theatre, but also aim to provide others with such emotionally enriching experiences. This person was the foundation which forged my career for the next half-decade professionally, and continuously through my writing.
This “guest” I speak of was my nan, Rita (Totally not grandmother, I tried calling her that once and never again). A truly amazing woman with experience in the United Kingdom pantomime scene back in the day, a colourful and opinionated soul who had a complex life with its ups and downs, especially in her later years, but was incredibly supportive of her family and always keen for a lunch out or another ultra-late night out at the theatre. We not only bonded over The Lion King the Musical, but over the years following enjoyed many productions, those I had worked on and those I was reviewing about. Always one with sharp opinions but also a clear passion for the industry, she was always top pick as companion for opening, media nights and just a fun day/night out at the theatre, enriching my own perspectives and always providing another unique set of eyes. From more than a few creative approaches to a media wall, us seeing Les Misérables (arguably her favourite musical) so many times, to a particularly memorable moment of us dancing together at a performance of Strictly Ballroom the Musical, she was really what started me off on this journey to where I am now.
Unfortunately, and a complete surprise to everyone, my nan passed away early this afternoon. To be honest, I am still processing the loss of this amazing woman, and right now the numbness towards everything has kicked in. I’ll be taking a few days off effective immediately to grieve, take the next steps, and also hopefully spend some time reminiscing about the countless beautiful moments we shared together. While many would dedicate an article to someone who has passed, every theatre review – past and future – is rightfully dedicated to the amazing woman who joined me throughout my journey in the theatre, one that will continue for hopefully many years to come.
Thank you for reading this as well. I greatly miss my nan, and wish we could have shared many more moments together.
